Question: In the modern context, devotees often accept a shiksha‑guru before initiation, unlike earlier times when a shiksha‑guru was chosen under the guidance of one’s diksha‑guru. Since we are taught to always follow the instructions of the diksha‑guru, should the same standard apply to the instructions of a shiksha‑guru, especially if I am not yet initiated? Additionally, what should I do if my personal inclination—though not opposed to spiritual practice—conflicts with an instruction given by my shiksha‑guru?
Answer by Romapada Swami:
The question you have raised about the absolute nature of the instructions received from one’s siksa guru prior to diksa, so much depends upon your clear understanding of what scripture indicates.
The example you gave is, if a siksha guru gives an instruction that goes against your desire or disposition, what should you do?
More important than “going against your desire” is “what does scripture say”? You have an obligation to identify what scripture says; the application of what scripture says – may be accepted according to the indications of the Siksa Guru. The obligation of Siksa Guru, on the other hand, is to simply repeat messages from the scripture.
Perhaps a practical solution to this dilemma is to reassess your identification of a particular individual as a Siksa Guru or not. In other words, PLACING YOUR DESIRES above the instructions of a Siksa Guru is a mistake. On the other hand, accepting a Siksa Guru that is dependent upon your desires or not is another mistake.
A Siksa Guru should be identified according to one’s faith in Transcendence, Guru and Sastra as well. You have a responsibility to identify Guru on those terms, not in terms of desire. I hope this helps!
