Question: After recognizing my inbred conditioning of competitiveness, how to overcome it?
Answer by Romapada Swami:
BG 13.11
mayi cananya-yogena
bhaktir avyabhicarini
“Constant and unalloyed devotion to Me” is the sole quality specifically for the devotee.
All other qualities come to a devotee who exclusively endeavors for constant, unalloyed devotion. (VCT)