Question: Since Dronacharya refused to teach martial arts to Ekalavya, therefore Ekalavya was left with no choice but to learn himself. Why was it wrong?
Answer by Romapada Swami:
Having approached Drona for instructions, Ekalavya should have deferred to his decision. When a qualified preceptor offers an assessment or order, however unpalatable or contrary to one’s expectations it may be, one should be willing to honor it whole-heartedly: that is real respect. By doing so, in a mood of absolute respect, Ekalavya could have easily won the favor of Drona.
But to sidestep the guru when he does not approve one’s whimsical desires and to work independently of him is not only wrong in etiquette but also completely contradictory to the guru-disciple relationship, especially when the guru is fully qualified. This simply demonstrates Ekalavya’s act to be presumptuous. Vedic culture holds in great respect the sanctity of guru- disciple relationship. The fact is that without the blessings of the preceptor, one will not be able to make any lasting and tangible advancement independently.
